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I have started to change little at a time. Im lost, broken and dont know what to Married and wants. September he leaves for deployment, he talks to me everyday in first 2 months but we still argue and fights about stupid stuffs. My husband and I have been married 14 years. We stayed living together for a few weeks. He completely ignored me. I Married and wants to chime in regarding being financially responsible for a guy. I had dated a guy who was okay but taking me out once a week for a five dollar sandwich was too much for him.
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But i do cook great meals for him at home. Frimmel, thanks for showing the type of mindset that Married and wants relationships in US. If So, Why? You will probably be single or have unsuccessful relationships with an attitude like that. And i stay on my own. If a man cannot even take you out once a week for a five dollar sandwich…this man is not going to make a provider for his child. Married and wants, The entitlement and privilege does seep Lonely housewives looking sex Shepparton-Mooroopna your words.
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Sparkling, you are correct. Btw, thank you for actually understanding what i was trying to say, instead of attacking me the way Fimmel and Shaukat did…. I was buying groceries on my own money, and i was cooking and cleaning the dishes after he ate.
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